Organizing your wedding step by step
Uh, oh! You said YES - now what? Here are some basic points you should take into consideration before planning your wedding day.
After the engagement stuff and after you’ve announced all your relative and friends the big step, it’s time to consider organizing your wedding day, ceremony and party and all what’s involved in it. Certainly it’s a big fuss about this grand event, you can’t do this by your own, only the two of you! Consider in asking help to your relatives or friends, this will make the stress go away and you’ll obtain a better organization! If you don’t have a clue where to start from, here are some basic points you should take into consideration and try to guide yourself after them, because they can be really helpful….
1st and basic step is to think how much do you want to hang up engaged to one and other, because you need to set a wedding date. Try to stay engaged until a good season that advantages matrimonies and the prices are low and good to make a wedding with style, in a nice place with a low budget or a really great one. Let’s not forget, it’s good to have some money remained from the wedding organization, isn’t it?
2nd hint regards the things mentioned above, meaning the place where you want your festivity to take place! Think of what type of place you would like for your wedding: a stylish and fancy one, or a cheap, and affordable place that everyone would use for such an event. You should also consider this is an important day of your life, maybe the most important one, and if you have the necessary money you can make it unforgettable! Don’t be greedy and show your skills and talents in creating a wonderful event!
3rd suggestion is also linked to the one above (as you can see they all match between themselves)! You need to see how much money you have at your disposition in your wedding day! Depending on the quantity of money you possess you are going to organize your wedding in a certain manner! A good thing is to start earning extra bucks in your engagement days or get a trust fund if you don’t have the necessary money to organize your wedding! The most expensive things in your wedding organization could be the bride’s gown, the musicians or the rented place in which the wedding is going to take part! Let’s not forget women are very spoiled and want extravagant dresses and accessories and that may cost a lot! If you want an extravagant wedding you can apply for a nice ball room and certainly your wedding will look great, let’s not forget also the accessories used in creating such a wedding, these must be at everyone’s expectations!
4th step is to set the date! You must set the date accordingly to the free day of the “place where the wedding party takes place”, the musicians, or the father! Let’s not forget that the aspects presented last, are essential and you must take them seriously into consideration! It’s very hard to decide on a particular day, so this can take some days of deep thinking!
5th step after you’ve decided the wedding day is to let everybody know you’ve got engaged and you are going to get married! Make a list of those you want to invite to your wedding. When you’ve finished the list begin ticking those whose attendance isn’t that necessary if there are too many guests on the sheet! Think of the people you would really enjoy having at your party and invite them! Firstly decide on a theme of the wedding! You may choose between vintage, colors, minimal, classical, rustic and so on…. depending on the theme you picked, try to make your invitations and send them to the ones you love, mentioning the date place and you know all the details….
6th hint is to hire somebody to manage all those details until the tiniest one! That’s if you’re busy people and have those kind of money at disposition! If you like the idea of organizing alone your own wedding, then arm yourself with coffee, courage and imagination and start organizing the grand festivity! Let’s not forget the fact that you would like to consult the internet and see what’s fashionable in the last period regarding the dress, cakes, accessories, invitations and so on…. don’t forget the fact that you need to organize even the smallest thing at that ceremony and you need guts for doing that!
7th suggestion is to start to shop the things you need, starting with the suit of the groom and after that you have to buy the bride’s dress! Make sure you’ve accessorized well these outfits and you won’t be stressed in your own wedding day that you don’t look appropriate! Study the market; see the models available and the prices! See also if the suit or dress fit you right and make you glam in it! If you’re done with this chapter, be sure you won’t have problems at organizing the rest of the wedding, because all those things won’t harden your time so much, as this one, because it regards you personally! Don’t forget, as a bride you have to choose also an appropriate bouquet, make it match with the wedding dress or the other accessories!
8th step is to choose between your friends the best man and the maids of honor! After you’ve done that, you need to pick up some suiting pieces of clothing for them! You all need to be in perfect coordination and you need to fit!
The 9th step, but not the last one is to arm yourself with patience and begin searching for floral arrangements, testimonies, accessories for tables and chairs, the wedding menu and all the things that include such a wonderful event! After you have done all these things you can be calm and prepare emotionally for the grand event!
The 10th and final step is to get used to the idea that you are going to get married, go to a specialist talk with him, tell him what you’re thinking! Do sports and relax yourself by watching funny movies! You must have a great physical and emotional state in the most important day of your life!
